WHAT ARE LOVEBUSTERS?

Lovebusters are habits that destroy love.

Lovebusters are the people who have these habits.

 LOVEBUSTER!

Colossians 3:4 Do not lie to one another.

I Corinthians 13:6 Love rejoices in the truth.

Ephesians 4:15 Speaking the truth in love…16 causes growth of…love.

HONEST LOVEBUSTERS

I Corinthians 13:5 Love does not seek its own.

I Corinthians 13:4 Love is not arrogant.

I Corinthians 13:5 Love is not provoked.

THE EXTENT OF HONEST LOVE

I Corinthians 13:6 Love rejoices in the truth; 7 bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

HOW TO OVERCOME

Proverbs 30:8 Remove falsehood and lies far from me.

Ephesians 4:15 Speaking the truth in love…

QUESTIONS FOR LIFE

1. Can you tell about a time that you justified lying because you were trying to protect someone (or a relationship) from hurt (or damage)?

2. Please read these passages: Colossians 3:4 Do not lie to one another.I Corinthians 13:6 Love rejoices in the truth. Ephesians 4:15 Speaking the truth in love…16 causes growth of…love. 

3. In light of these passages, what should you have done instead of lie (from question 1) What difference would it have made?

4. Can you tell about a time that you did speak the truth in love even when it was hard to do? How did that turn out?

5. Please read these passages:I Corinthians 13:5 Love does not seek its own.I Corinthians 13:4 Love is not arrogant.I Corinthians 13:5 Love is not provoked.

6. Can you tell about that you were an honest Lovebuster when you spoke the truth while violating one of these statements? How did that turn out?

7. Please read this passage: I Corinthians 13:6 Love rejoices in the truth; 7 bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

8. Based on this passage, if you’re married, what should be the extent of honesty?

9. If you’re married, how important do you think it is to be honest with each other about your past?

10. In you’re married, how important do you think it is to share your daily schedules with  each other? If you do this, what difference has it made?

11. Have you thought, or do you think you have the right to privacy? Please explain.

12. If you’re married, can you tell about a time that you made future plans without             telling your spouse? Why didn’t you tell? How did that turn out?